Monday, November 19, 2007

Just a few things...

I'm very excited, because tomorrow evening my sister and I will be seeing Mr. Jesse Malin play at the Tin Angel in Philly. From all that I have read it sounds as if this show is going to be acoustic, he did an acoustic set back in Sept at the Mercury Lounge which I saw and it was really amazing. Not only is he brilliant musically but his stage banter between songs and the way he introduced songs was really charming and funny. A great live act all around. There will be pictures and a write up on the show next week.

Onto the next subject.... yesterday I saw the film "Gone Baby Gone" this film marks Ben Afleck's directorial debut. The film takes place in Boston and is about a young private investigator (played by Ben's brother Casey Afleck, who I think is so cuter and a much better actor then his brother!) who is asked by an the aunt and uncle of a missing three year old girl to help find the girl and talk to people who might know something but don't wanna speak with the police. The missing girl's mother is a troubled woman who has a history of drug and alcohol abuse and in a nutshell and without reveling the entire plot, Casey Afleck's character uncovers the truth about the case. The film is good...not great but good, at times it seems like Ben was reading the direction and screenwriting for dummies book on how to make a film, cause it seemed like he used every possible plot device and every possible shot that you would use in a drama suspense film. At times the film seemed looped together and there where holes in the plot. Morgan Freeman, Amy Madigan and Ed Harris also star in the film and everyone gives great performances but the script is a little shotty. And one thing I noticed is that Amy Madigan as she gets older is really starting to look an awful lot like Marianne Faithfull!!
The general consensus is don't waste your $11.00!

Onto the last subject.....I read this story on CNN.com and it really got me upset! When I was a kid and I got into altercations with my friends my mom would always say work them out on your own, but if I went too far with in one of these altercations my parents would always step in and say hey you can't do that!! And I thank god I had parents who were parents!! This story just proves that certain people no matter how old they are never grow up!!

From CNN.com

http://www.cnn.com/2007/US/11/17/internet.suicide.ap/index.html

DARDENNE PRAIRIE, Missouri (AP) -- Megan Meier thought she had made a new friend in cyberspace when a cute teenage boy named Josh contacted her on MySpace and began exchanging messages with her.


Teen's parents say she thought she had made a friend through the social networking web site MySpace.

Megan, a 13-year-old who suffered from depression and attention deficit disorder, corresponded with Josh for more than a month before he abruptly ended their friendship, telling her he had heard she was cruel.

The next day Megan committed suicide. Her family learned later that Josh never actually existed; he was created by members of a neighborhood family that included a former friend of Megan's.

Now Megan's parents hope the people who made the fraudulent profile on the social networking web site will be prosecuted, and they are seeking legal changes to safeguard children on the Internet.

The girl's mother, Tina Meier, said she doesn't think anyone involved intended for her daughter to kill herself.

"But when adults are involved and continue to screw with a 13-year-old, with or without mental problems, it is absolutely vile," she told the Suburban Journals of Greater St. Louis, which first reported on the case.

Tina Meier said law enforcement officials told her the case did not fit into any law. But sheriff's officials have not closed the case and pledged to consider new evidence if it emerges.

Megan Meier hanged herself in her bedroom on October 16, 2006, and died the next day. She was described as a "bubbly, goofy" girl who loved spending time with her friends, watching movies and fishing with her dad.

Megan had been on medication, but had been upbeat before her death, her mother said, after striking up a relationship on MySpace with Josh Evans about six weeks before her death.

Josh told her he was born in Florida and had recently moved to the nearby community of O'Fallon. He said he was homeschooled, and didn't yet have a phone number in the area to give her. Watch Megan's parents say she swooned when she received an affectionate note from 'Josh' »

Megan's parents said she received a message from him on October 15 of last year, essentially saying he didn't want to be her friend anymore, that he had heard she wasn't nice to her friends.

The next day, as Megan's mother headed out the door to take another daughter to the orthodontist, she knew Megan was upset about Internet messages. She asked Megan to log off. Users on MySpace must be at least 14, though Megan was not when she opened her account. A MySpace spokeswoman did not return calls seeking comment.

Someone using Josh's account was sending cruel messages. Then, Megan called her mother, saying electronic bulletins were being posted about her, saying things like, "Megan Meier is a slut. Megan Meier is fat."

Megan's mother, who monitored her daughter's online communications, returned home and said she was shocked at the vulgar language her own daughter was sending. She told her daughter how upset she was about it.

Megan ran upstairs, and her father, Ron, tried to tell her everything would be fine. About 20 minutes later, she was found in her bedroom. She died the next day.

Her father said he found a message the next day from Josh, which he said law enforcement authorities have not been able to retrieve. It told the girl she was a bad person and the world would be better without her, he has said.

Another parent, who learned of the MySpace account from her own daughter who had access to the Josh profile, told Megan's parents about the hoax in a counselor's office about six weeks after Megan died. That's when they learned Josh was imaginary, they said.

The woman who created the fake profile has not been charged with a crime. She allegedly told the St. Charles County Sheriff's Department she created Josh's profile because she wanted to gain Megan's confidence to know what Megan was saying about her own child online.

The mother from down the street told police that she, her daughter and another person all typed and monitored the communication between the fictitious boy and Megan.

A person who answered the door at the family's house told an Associated Press reporter on Friday afternoon that they had been advised not to comment.

Megan's parents had been storing a foosball table for the family that created the MySpace character. Six weeks after Megan's death, they learned the other family had created the profile and responded by destroying the foosball table, dumping it on the neighbors' driveway and encouraging them to move away.

Megan's parents are now separated and plan to divorce.


Aldermen in Dardenne Prairie, a community of about 7,000 residents about 35 miles from St. Louis, have proposed a new ordinance related to child endangerment and Internet harassment. It could come before city leaders on Wednesday.

"Is this enough?" Mayor Pam Fogarty said Friday. "No, not by any stretch of the imagination, but it's something, and you have to start somewhere."